But every time, you are hoping for something to happen which will give you this closure.If you think of closure as something that will happen in your life which will immediately help you forget everything, then you are just setting yourself up for more misery.

Go down to the comments section and write down the scenario you were hoping which will give you closure. I am not doing this to make her feel better, as I will not apologize. Closure will come from inside me, not from something that will happen outside.” I understand this statement.

And at the end write “I know even if this happens, it will not give me closure.

Closure will come from inside me, not from something that will happen outside.” I have been contacted by her.

Contacting your ex, in hopes of getting closure is only going to get your more confused. – Your ex answers your call but refuses to answer your questions.

In most cases, when you contact your ex, in hopes of getting closure one of the following happens. You are just making a fool of yourself demanding answers that they are not willing to give. Leading to an argument, which obviously doesn’t make you feel better. It doesn’t matter what answers your mind is seeking.

– Your ex answers you but it doesn’t give you closure. It’s not going to be satisfied until you do your grief work and understand yourself. Not from something that will happen outside.(Note: If you think that getting back together will help you get closure, check out my article on how to get your ex girlfriend back.) But it’s not easy to shut down the thoughts and the questions. There are things I value about her as I value in all my friends.

Here is a simple exercise you can do right now, to let it all go. Not for vengence, but I truly believe she thinks she did no wrong. Am I ready to contact her yes…it has almost been a month of no contact. “I know even if this happens, it will not give me closure.

When you are asking for closure, what exactly are you expecting? I have to know what happened that she went from “I Love You” to “I want a divorce”. I think my ex owes me an explanation Do you think answering these questions will lead you to closure? The mind which is in pain is expecting something to happen that will just ease all the pain, stop all the questions, and bring you at peace with the breakup.

I think if I just know his feelings about me, I will get closure. She said that she loved me and will always be with me.